tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2219104250659776105.post6779171467732827424..comments2023-11-03T09:13:57.035-04:00Comments on MY JOURNEY THROUGH INFERTILITY: Hard Times Just Get WorseLisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03938867802469168990noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2219104250659776105.post-6034089444791204392008-12-21T22:01:00.000-05:002008-12-21T22:01:00.000-05:00Sorry you had to deal with all that right after su...Sorry you had to deal with all that right after surgery. I also understand about money being tight and that putting a kink in things. I hope something comes along for you soon.Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10975869412555446631noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2219104250659776105.post-33763773658547510682008-12-19T10:55:00.000-05:002008-12-19T10:55:00.000-05:00I worked in childcare for 2 years and was accused ...I worked in childcare for 2 years and was accused of causing a bruise once. Luckily, the owner blew it off to the mom and I wasn't reprimanded or written up. I was horribley upset because I would never do that. I think children should act with respect to the adults around them, but I didn't hurt them if they misbehaved. You really can't get away from these types of situations. They stink, but some people have to make up things to make themselves feel better about thier lot in life. It really is a horrible way to live and they will eventually reap what they sow.Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12375277770535046144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2219104250659776105.post-79782590962993080752008-12-18T22:32:00.000-05:002008-12-18T22:32:00.000-05:00I am not online right now do to my surgery but whe...I am not online right now do to my surgery but when I read this I was just shocked and really mad. First of all anyone who knows you knows you LOVE children and fought really hard to be a mommy. The fact that these people used you to take care of their daughter for so long shows they had to trust you. No one decides all of the sudden that a Nanny is abusing their child and emails them about it..<BR/>They found a daycare and were not honest enough to tell you...because they wanted to lead you on until they were settled with their plans. Sorry that is just awful and cruel. They are users. Plain and simple...you know what...daycare will teach them a lesson. They have been spoiled by you and they do not know how good they have it...they will..<BR/>Now enough of them...you need a job...and I want to help.<BR/>I know my neighbor uses some nanny sites and got a few great jobs from them...<BR/>This is the only one I can remember...I am on pain meds..ha<BR/>I will get the list and make sure I get them to you...asap.<BR/>http://www.nannies4hire.com/index.asp<BR/>Lisa...I am really sorry this happened. But Thank God you now know how dangerous these people can be...they could of caused you and your family a lot of legal heartache.<BR/>Hugs..Amy Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03818950609075017961noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2219104250659776105.post-29158500580034099252008-12-18T20:10:00.000-05:002008-12-18T20:10:00.000-05:00Aww, Lisa, I am so sorry your are going through th...Aww, Lisa, I am so sorry your are going through this... I will be praying that God will set you in the right direction...I will never understand how and why people can be so mean.Elaine at Matters of the Heart)https://www.blogger.com/profile/01525011023572036236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2219104250659776105.post-45985151486699894322008-12-18T15:22:00.000-05:002008-12-18T15:22:00.000-05:00It hurts me to know that you have been hurt in suc...It hurts me to know that you have been hurt in such an awful way. This couple must not have the capability to know what is right and wrong. They in my mind have some learning to do of their own, especially as parents. Did they go through fertility treatments to get their precious child like you did? If only they would stop and think about all of the trials and prayers that you went through to give life to Cameron, then maybe their minds would change about the type of care that you gave to their little one. Unfortuantely in today's society a lot of people are "me" oriented and only think of themselves and what is in it for them. They don't consider others and their actions to others. One of the hardest things that I have to deal with is the fact that people who should not have children seem to be able to have them when ever they want and how many thay want, even when the children they have may truly not be wanted or are taken care of and neglected. As you know from Shawn being a teacher, the school that I last taught in was this reality and it really bothers me and makes me quite bitter knowing that Scott and I are so much in love with each other and only want to express that love to everyone by having a family of our own.<BR/><BR/>Hang in there. Scott and I know what it is like to try and shuffle things around and be in a pinch for money. We right now are having some hard times because of wedding bills, credit cards and a huge loss on crops this year. You will make it through, keep the faith and I know God will see you through this. You are so creative, I know that you will find some way to make this Christmas special for your family, your parents and Shawn's parents. <BR/><BR/>When God closes a door He opens a window and right now, I have to keep that in mind for myself. The window that he opens may be a beautiful rainbow or sunshine that fills your spirit with his new calling for you. It will be awesome I am sure!<BR/><BR/>Love you, Shawn and Cameron very much! You are always in our prayers, and such an important part of the family to us!<BR/><BR/>Lots of smiles today,<BR/>StaceyStaceyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09657418120443199657noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2219104250659776105.post-45016480134288059032008-12-18T13:18:00.000-05:002008-12-18T13:18:00.000-05:00Oh Lisa, I am so sorry you are going through this....Oh Lisa, I am so sorry you are going through this. You do not deserve this. (especially right now)<BR/>I will say a prayer that this all works out in a positive way. <BR/>Take this negative and make it a positive.<BR/>Just keep praying and things will turn around.<BR/>Right now focus on your healing.<BR/>Your marriage is strong, while it is never fun to have strain put on it, you will make it out stronger than before.<BR/>For the record, I do not believe for a minute that you would be capable of doing anything harmful to a child. <BR/>HUGSKellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16751055226245138990noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2219104250659776105.post-79970226699265075902008-12-18T11:21:00.000-05:002008-12-18T11:21:00.000-05:00Wow, I am in total shock. I think that is very ru...Wow, I am in total shock. I think that is very rude of them, but I am also thinking that you are now better off with her in a daycare. Sorry the situation turned out not so well. Hope that you are feeling better soon and I know it hurts to be accused of something, but you didn't do anything, so they are the ones with the problem. Not you.<BR/>Feel better:)<BR/>MimiHe & Me + 3https://www.blogger.com/profile/03692972824923390203noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2219104250659776105.post-45849937637523050772008-12-18T11:05:00.000-05:002008-12-18T11:05:00.000-05:00I don't know what to say. I, too, used to be a Na...I don't know what to say. I, too, used to be a Nanny and later when we adopted our son I took care of someone else's son. But I never faced what you are facing.<BR/><BR/>I hope you are able to get another child to take care of, in this person's place, so that some of the financial pressure lets up. My husband used to work 3 jobs. Now he works 1, but it entails being gone all week.<BR/><BR/>It always hurts being accused by someone and it's frustrating to be accused of something you didn't do and not able to prove yourself innocent. I would just say that these people are suffering, too, because something is obviously wrong there and they've also lost a caring and good caretaker for their child.<BR/><BR/>I'm sorry for what you are going through, especially at this time of year.Aspiemomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13720558783668971656noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2219104250659776105.post-46964825073350526032008-12-18T11:01:00.000-05:002008-12-18T11:01:00.000-05:00How horrible Lisa, for them to accuse someone of s...How horrible Lisa, for them to accuse someone of such a thing!<BR/>Honestly if my child was in any way harmed the authorities would have been called, or some sort of report would have been made. SO in saying this and they have not presued anything (just from what you are posting) and they had come up with horrible excuse to pull her out of your care, damage the relationship you had with them and their child, jepordize your reputation, hurt you and your family, and not even have the balls (excuse me for saying that! but it just peeves me when people do not think about what harm false accuactions will bring)-to say to your face or at least call you they email you!<BR/>Oh my gosh! I would do like brandi said keep records of everything.<BR/><BR/>Can you run a Christmas special, I know it is last minute but is there a way you can post some kind of special on craigslist, or local adversisement for parents that need to have daycare while they are shopping, maybe take some kids over this weekend-for the day at a special rate?<BR/><BR/>Were these young parents? some do not know how to communicate and maybe take constructive feedback (like you were trying to talk about the diaper incident). not that it's an excuse.<BR/>Sorry for long comment, it just peeves me when good loving people get accused of such a thing.FlyAwayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06140426654364902656noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2219104250659776105.post-55214078386000892542008-12-18T09:59:00.000-05:002008-12-18T09:59:00.000-05:00I am so sorry Lisa I know you would never hurt a c...I am so sorry Lisa I know you would never hurt a child. I think that is horrible that they would accuse you of that. I would document things and keep all the emails and emails you sent back just in case. Can you maybe advertise to get another child to watch in your home? I know that it is hard when money is tight. Money is defenitly tight in our household with me not working and my husband only making fifteen dollars an hour. Plus all our fertility treatments and another baby on the way. I know how hard it is. All I can say is pray for answers talk with your husband make a decesion that is best for you.Brandi, Dan, L and Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00853304622730536905noreply@blogger.com